It’s no secret: guys and girls
being "just friends" is a concept
held by only the dreamers.

Any
lady who believes that she can be
just a friend with a guy other than
co-worker, co-student, or just on
a platonic hi-hi level is in-fact the
most myopic lady to walk on this
planet
A guy’s friends consist of, well, only guys. The
only reason a guy would go close to a girl would
be to date or bed her. No guy is going to waste
his time just being a friend with a girl because it’s
not like she is a sports freak or a trans-
gendered.


Guys have enough guy friends and won’t waste
their time listening to ladies talk from a girl just
to be their friend. Plain and simple he wants to
bed you except of course you don't mind or he
has not made it obvious yet.


Guys being friends with girls is a farce: either he
wants to sleep with her, or she still believes in
unicorns, because a guy cannot genuinely be
friends with a girl and its either the lady secretly
desires him or vis avis even while one of the two
are ignorant of this.


In-fact i always tell a guy or lady
to be more at alert when your bae
says this about another opposite
sex..

"we are just friends,we enjoy
each other's company,we are just
fond of each other" because once
you start hearing this from your
bae,you should run because
fondness is stronger than the
feeling of love and what your bae
will not dicsuss with you will be
discussed freely with that person
so of what use is the affair you
are having?


I know some people will say not in
all cases and i quite agree but there is a simple
test to know if there is no hidden notion or
surpressed desire so please as a lady just prove
me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss
and watch him stop you. After-all you guys
ought to be just friends.


And for the married man, snap out
of your delusion and tell yourself
hard fact...YOU ARE OLOJU
KOKORO...Let your wife be your
only friend,best friend and close
friend and same for the lady.


Keeping "friends" of the opposite
sex while married or committed to
someone is an emotional affair
and its even worse than actual
physical affair.


Just trying to make common
sense.